Diamond Buying Advice Diamond Advice and Information on Choosing a Diamond

Aug

24

Do You Really Need a Diamond?

Posted by admin | Posted in Diamond Advice | Posted on 24-08-2009

We have all heard of the quote, “Diamonds are a Girl’s Best Friend” but did you know that this was simply one slogan to the most successful marketing campaign of all time?

DeBeers, the world’s major diamond producer wanted to sell more diamonds so they came up with a major marketing campaign that sold us on diamond engagement rings and diamond solitaires for wedding rings and how all of this was part of our Anglo-Saxon heritage and tradition.

They even came up with the idea that the guide to how much you should spend on an engagement ring was three months pay – get this straight, they just came up with that idea and painted it as a tradition and the modern consumer market lapped it right up.

The truth is you do not need to spend a small fortune on an engagement ring nor on a wedding ring, and certainly it does not have to be a diamond. Many women actually prefer an alternative to diamonds and it is not unusual to see other precious gems being used instead of them. Even better, modern technology has given us man-made diamonds which are far cheaper and also have an added bonus not usually associated with diamonds and jewelry manufacture – they are eco-friendly!

Man-made diamonds are indistinguishable from naturally occurring diamonds, and sometimes they perform even better in certain diamond tests because imperfections and flaws can be removed by the production process.

Moissanite is an example of artificial diamond which cannot be readily distinguished from naturally occurring diamonds – so good is it, that a special piece of machinery had to be developed just to be able to tell the two apart. In terms of the qualities which really count in a piece of jewelry – the brilliance, fire and luster – moissanite is better than diamond while it is only marginally less harder than diamond itself. A major factor which does differentiate the two is that moissanite is far less expensive compared to real diamonds and yet, a jeweler would not be able to tell the two apart!

Another alternative to real diamonds is cubic zirconia, which is the crystal form of zirconium dioxide – a synthetic material which is very durable and has a very close appearance to diamond. It is very cheap to make in comparison to a diamond and lends itself to being cut and shaped into glittering gemstones. Since the mid-seventies it has been the most commonly used diamond-alternative but with the development of moissanite it now has competition.

Using real diamonds may be what you wish to have in your rings but there is nothing in wedding tradition that says this is how it has to be. Getting engaged and married is a very expensive exercise and many couples end up deep in debt as a result of their marriage and wedding expenses – it is not a good start to married life to be saddled with debt! You can ensure you have the same look and feel as real diamonds by using an alternative so don’t be railroaded into the marketing trap that “Diamonds are Forever!”

By Jill Renee

Mar

18

Hearts and Arrows Diamonds

Posted by cissy | Posted in Diamond Choices, Jewelry Advice, Ring Selection | Posted on 18-03-2009

Spring is in the air, and along with the impending warmer weather season, comes thoughts of flowers, love and feelings of sentimentality. For those who may be in the market for a type of engagement ring that has the ability to easily stir up a lively conversation; or a diamond that readily brings Cupid to mind; a Hearts and Arrows diamond may just be the thing to suit your fancy. (Yes, there really is such a thing. ) A Hearts and Arrows diamond is a brilliant round shaped diamond that, when looked at from the top, reflects the likeness of arrows. When turned over, and viewed from a totally different angle, the display has a distinct similarity to the appearance of hearts.

172-symmetryallex The history of the Hearts and Arrows diamonds cut is quite interesting. Originally discovered in Japan during the 1980’s; and warmly accepted in the United States during the 1990’s, it is so named due to the unusual pattern it displays when placed under a special diamond viewer.

This particular cut, known for its precise symmetry, takes more than double the amount of time to cut and polish, as it would take to produce a similar sized regular round brilliant diamond cut, so expect the price to be at least comparatively higher.

Only a small percentage of diamonds produced today can be termed as authentic Hearts and Arrows. While checking the background and authenticity of any diamond is always a wise thing to do, this important step becomes particularly important when selecting any specialty diamond pieces. This means that any purchaser would need to take the necessary steps to ensure that any diamond labeled as such, has the characteristics of a true Hearts and Arrows diamond, because after all, a true love deserves to be recognized with a true diamond.

Happy Spring from Danforth Diamonds, who believe in helping you find the perfect diamond.

Feb

04

Valentine’s Day Diamonds…”I heart you ?”

Posted by cissy | Posted in Diamond Advice, Jewelry Advice, Romantic Advice | Posted on 04-02-2009

Valentine’s day approaches us once again; and along with this will come loads of opportunities for passing out diamond rings that come with mixed signals. And so we offer the following as an informal public service:

It is usually customary to utter at least a few words of affection prior to any ring presentation. Of course, you could say, “Here, take this!“ while unceremoniously shoving a ring sized box at a confused recipient. Any words spoken will depend on the relationship between the giver and the recipient. If the recipient happens to be your mother or sister, this will be an easy one. They already know you, and will be just merely amused at your overall crassness, as well as, lack of finesse. However, if the recipient happens to be a significant other, and the ring is of a questionable size (teetering somewhere between a friendship or an engagement ring) it comes with an even more questionable meaning. Perhaps, you gave into the pressure of Valentine’s day, but in any case, you know you have to say something …especially when you’re staring straight at someone who is tilting her head to the side, while having “What the…?” written all over her face.

“I *heart* you” to the rescue! While this new and wickedly convenient, phrase has surfaced only in recent times, there also has been a bit of confusion as to the phrase’s proper use and/or context. From our understanding, the delightfully ambiguous saying falls suspiciously between the sentiments of “I like you” and “I love you.” In other words: An extreme case of affection…with half the calories. The confusion alone, can quite possibly buy you at least a few days of time….time to boldly solidify your promise of affection, or time to take that Michael Jackson “moonwalk” out of any perceived commitment misunderstanding.

Valentine’s Day Jewelry Specials at DanforthDiamond.com, your engagement ring experts.

While Valentine’s day brings its own unique pressures, it is always a wise move to use any declarations of affection with extreme caution, especially when a relationship is at the unsure “I *heart* you” stage. This one can be tricky. And so, with this, we admonish you to use “I like you” , “I love you” or “I *heart* you” with care. Because, after all, there is life after Valentine’s day. Consider yourself warned. After this, you’re on your own.

Dec

20

Nothing Like the Real Thing! Diamond Education

Posted by cissy | Posted in Diamond Advice | Posted on 20-12-2008

Probably a fake diamond.

Pretty, isn’t it? But is it real? It sparkles, it flashes, it behaves like the real thing…but is it? In view of some of the most recent scientific and technological advances, sometimes it can be extremely difficult to distinguish a real diamond gemstone from a synthetic, lab-created stone. However, with a bit of detective work, it can be done. When an investment is made for such a costly purchase as an engagement ring or wedding ring, peace of mind can, and should be of utmost importance.

One way to determine whether or not a diamond is genuine, is to weigh it. Synthetic diamonds weigh about 1.5 more than the “real thing.” This can easily be determined by having it verified on a gram or carat scale. Another simple thing would be to examine the stone externally f

or any obvious scratches or blemishes. Diamonds are among the hardest substances found in nature, and can usually only be scratched by another diamond. Also, by taking a look at the depth of the brilliance, one can be given clue as to whether or not it is the “real thing.” With a genuine diamond, light is more refractive, and will cause the diamond to sparkle from all sides, whereas most synthetic stones will have a sparkly surface and no depth…all “razzle dazzle” with no substance. Heat is also rapidly dispersed with a genuine diamond, and so a heat probe can also flush out any fakes in almost no time at all.

However, if you want to be absolutely, 100% sure, a trusted jeweler, or professional gemologist (Gemological Institute of America, GIA) can provide a certificate of authenticity.

Dec

16

Sizing it Up! Big Diamonds

Posted by cissy | Posted in Diamond Advice | Posted on 16-12-2008

“Big Girls Need Big Diamonds” – Elizabeth Taylor

Elizabeth Taylor - One BIG Diamond

Well, there is no doubt about it. The time to purchase an engagement ring for your beloved has finally arrived. You thought that you were ready, but in all of the excitement, find that you have not really given full consideration to the desired carat weight. Although you have found the perfect style and setting, you have yet to decide what size diamond you should really aim for. This one is a personal choice, and will require a bit of soul searching.

First, you will need to do your homework up front. By now, you should have enough knowledge under your belt for, at the very least, a most basic and general understanding of what she may like or dislike. If not, feel free to discreetly hint around, or ask a trusted relative or friend.

By now, you should have also figured out any budgetary considerations, if necessary. If you have not done so, be sure to check with your trusted jeweler. Ask yourself: Just what will she be expecting? Is she a petite person with small fingers? Or, is she tall, with long slender fingers? Will the main stone be offset with companion stones? Is size more important than sparkle and brilliance?

Although a diamond of any carat size would be more than likely accepted with gratitude and excitement, it certainly will bring more joy and happiness, if the selection has been meticulously planned; and if serious thought has been put into the choice made. Trust an expert on this one: No girl is going going to turn down a whopper! In any case, be sure to make a choice that you both can be proud of. Don’t forget what Liz said! (This can also be true for even most “little” girls) ;-)

Nov

30

December Diamond Dilemma?…Doesn’t Have to Be!

Posted by cissy | Posted in Jewelry Advice, Ring Selection | Posted on 30-11-2008

Do you know what today’s date is? Do you need a gentle reminder? Have you already gone “You-Know-Where” to pick out the “You-Know-What” for “You-Know-Who?” If not, do you realize how many more days you have left? Does any of this “ring” a bell? Still don’t get it? Well, let’s just get a little more direct, and to the point: Have you plans to make any important announcement under the mistletoe? Is there perhaps a warm weather wedding in your future?

If you haven’t done so already, now is the time to “get a move on!” Yes, you’re late, but all is not lost! Aside from it being the obvious holiday season; ‘tis also the season when many a “significant other “ is transformed ; gaining the additional title of Fiance, as the tinkle of Jingle Bells fade and the clanging of, once distant, Wedding Bells grows even louder. OK, you’ve already got the ring size. We applaud the clever and stealthy way you managed to snag it from her this past summer at the beach. Really proud of yourself, aren’t you? Yes, we know; you’ve had it for some time now…but just haven’t gotten around to taking that all important step. And now, you are beginning to panic. In a word: Don’t. In your favor: The great thing about all of this, is the fact that, particularly during this time of year, especially during the holiday season, one can find superior quality engagement and wedding jewelry…some even with special pricing.

However, prior to making that all important visit to your jeweler, keep cool. First: Educate yourself, making sure that you understand jewelry terminology. If you do not understand a term, do more research, or have an expert jeweler explain it to you. Secondly: Make sure that you understand what your future bride’s preferences are when it comes to style and other engagement ring specifics. Perhaps, you can find this out via a trusted friend or family member. (Remember, 007, you already got the ring size) Also, for engagement ring budget purposes, prior to selecting a jeweler, you will also need to know how much you plan to spend . If needed, an expert jeweler can assist you in developing a realistic payment plan.

Go on. You can do it! But for now…Congratulations and best wishes on your new and exciting adventure!

Nov

18

Diamonds On the Loose…

Posted by cissy | Posted in Diamond Advice, Jewelry Advice | Posted on 18-11-2008

Have you been shopping for engagement or wedding rings lately? If you have, it is quite possible that, by now, you have seen dozens and dozens of them. You may feel as if you would recognize the perfect ring almost immediately ; the moment you laid eyes on it; but now you are beginning to wonder if such a thing actually exists! Are the following words now familiar to you: “This particular ring is almost what we want!…if only the diamond were of a better quality.“ Or…“The diamond is absolutely gorgeous; it’s just that the setting isn’t one that we particularly care for.”

Although it requires a little more effort and time, you may give some thought to purchasing one or more loose diamonds; then showcasing them in a setting of your choice. Carefully choosing quality loose diamonds, and matching them with either a unique commissioned and designed setting, or an already available setting, most certainly can be one of your options.

However, one would not just walk up to a jeweler and ask for a generic diamond….any diamond, just to fit a chosen setting. The selection of a loose diamond requires that just as much thought be put into it as one would when purchasing an already designed and readily available wedding or engagement ring. It also goes without saying, that the 4C’s play an important role in making a wise and intelligent choice. Oftentimes, after examining a diamond, the fire and personality of the stone itself, will inspire an appropriate setting . Again, your jeweler will be more than happy to work with you, and to help with your final selection.

If you are creative enough, finding the perfect ring may be a simple matter of just letting your imagination run loose.